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    1. Why, thank you! 🙂 I’m looking at my nice clean furniture and thinking, “Good for me!” too. 🙂

  1. Terri Goehner says:

    Thank you Cheri, I needed to hear/read this today. I’m terrible at giving myself permission. It is much easier to give permission to others but when it comes to me…I am a ruthless taskmaster. Perhaps the bully isn’t people pleasing but “me pleasing”…constantly trying to win my own approval of what I do or think I should do/accomplish, etc.

    1. Terri — Such a great insight! It occurred to me this morning that if a friend were to ask me, “Hey, do you think I should hire a company to come clean my furniture or do it myself?” I would never say, “You’re the one who let it get dirty, so you should be the one to clean it.” I would INSIST that she make the call to set the appointment and invest her time doing things only she can do!