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  1. Andrea Virnau says:

    You have just hit it out of the park with this post! That was me yesterday! Thank you for the excellent food for thought! As for those who have un subscribed, here is my 2cents. I have decided to really narrow down who I subscribe to/ follow, etc. I was following a lot if great ppl/pages/blogs, etc. But it was taking up too much time and just overloading me. It was hard to choose who should stay- part of my decluttering process online. In the midst of it, I chose to start/keep following you! ((Hugs))

  2. Terri Goehner says:

    Thanks Cheri. Just what I needed to hear today. It is as if you climbed into my head and read my thoughts ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks for helping me process what I have been feeling.

  3. I’m so glad I found your blog! I think I have commented several times about how I feel you are putting my feelings into words. I very much relate to and identify with your post and appreciate your suggestions and advise. Please keep writing and encouraging readers like me ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. This kind of thing has happened to me twice this week…once about 30 minutes before I received the email with this blog post. What a blessing it was to get this message today! Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

    By the way, I know that feeling when people unsubscribe. But then I remember a piece of advice that a blogging coach gave me…you don’t want anyone but your biggest fans on your list/Facebook page/ Twitter account, etc., so when people unsubscribe, it’s actually a good thing!

    I hope everything works out with Annemarie’s graduation ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Merri Lewis says:

      I love that Erin “you don’t want anyone but your biggest fans on your list, etc.” And that is true… but so hard to remember when people leave!

      Cheri, I got “that sinking feeling” for you when I read about the -7. I’d subscribe 7x to make up for it! It is truly their loss. And as for pushing pause? Yeah, I need to figure that one out too–not so easy sometimes! But when I find something that works, it’s amazing. <3

  5. Cheri, your processing is so helpful to me. Thank you for sharing. I need to identify how to “press pause”, deal with triggers, rehearse truth, and everything else you mentioned. I’m in a situation right now that would have benefited from following your process. Thankfully it’s not too late.